Ruby ColeTUITION & COACHING
Online children's coach, Europe

Online coaching for children and teenagers across Europe.

One to one online coaching for children and teenagers aged 7 to 18 in international and expat families across Europe, arranged around your child's school day and your time zone.

Award-winning specialist support

Steady one to one support, arranged around your family's week.

  • London Teacher of the Year Award 2021
  • BSc Psychology (Hons) and Qualified Teacher Status
  • 10+ years with children in the UK and internationally
  • One to one online sessions, ages 7 to 18

Families across Europe come to coaching from many different school settings: international schools, bilingual schools, local schools and British schools abroad. Whatever the setting, the questions children bring are often very similar. How to find their feet in a new place, how to keep friendships going across distance, and who they are when home is more than one place.

Some families have just arrived from the UK or are moving between postings. Others have lived in Europe for years and are noticing something more specific: a child hovering at the edge of a friendship group, a teenager who has gone quiet, or motivation that has quietly dropped away.

This sits alongside the wider support for international and expat families, delivered online from the UK.

At a glance

Main service
One-to-one online coaching for children and teenagers
Ages
Coaching for ages 7 to 18. Tuition for ages 7 to 13
Areas of support
Friendships, social confidence, emotional regulation, executive functioning, organisation, school transitions and independence
SEN and neurodiversity
Psychology-informed support adapted for autistic children, children with ADHD and children with other additional needs
Tuition
British curriculum tuition, academic confidence, 7+, 9+ and 11+ preparation can be incorporated where appropriate
Format
Individual online sessions tailored around the child’s strengths, needs and goals
Availability
Sessions arranged around the child’s school day and local time zone.
Practitioner
Ruby Cole, qualified teacher, BSc Psychology (Hons), former Assistant Psychologist and London Teacher of the Year 2021
Scope
Education-led, psychology-informed coaching. This is not therapy, counselling, psychological assessment or clinical treatment

What children across Europe often bring to sessions

Growing up between languages and cultures is common for international children in Europe, and it asks more of a child socially than it looks like on paper. A child can be fluent in two languages and still hesitate before joining a conversation, unsure which version of themselves fits the room.

Moves are another constant. Children who have changed school mid-year, or who expect to again, often hold back from settling fully. Sessions give them somewhere to think about that out loud with an adult who is not worried by it.

What Ruby and your child work towards

Sessions are practical and specific, built around what your child is finding hard right now and reviewed together as things move.

Finding a footing in a new school, in any language
Reading a friendship group and finding a way back in
Keeping friendships going across distance
Rebuilding motivation that has quietly dropped away
Talking about a move or a school change before it happens
Naming a worry early, rather than it building up

Social confidence, friendships and communication

Ruby and your child look at what is actually happening in a friendship or a group chat, in English or in your child's other language, and work out what your child could try next. For a child who has recently arrived, that is often more useful than being told to put themselves out there.

Teenagers tend to work on harder ground, including friendships that have quietly changed since starting secondary school, and how to say something honest to a friend without losing them.

There is more detail in the social and friendships coaching programme.

Executive functioning, organisation and independence

School days vary widely across European schools, but the pattern is familiar: a full day, homework in one or two languages, and a child who genuinely does not know where to start. Ruby and your child build a simple system your child can run themselves.

Parents usually notice the difference first in how much chasing they are doing, and how much less of a fight the evening becomes.

This work follows the organisation and independence programme.

Emotional regulation, confidence and transitions

Motivation and mood often move together. A child who has stopped trying is frequently a child who has quietly decided they are not good enough, rather than one who does not care. Ruby and your child work on noticing that thought and testing it against what is actually true.

Where a family is preparing for another move, sessions cover the practical worries as well as the feelings underneath them.

SEN and neurodivergent children

Ruby has spent years working with autistic children, children with ADHD, and children whose profiles include differences in processing speed, working memory or executive functioning. The approach is neurodiversity-affirming: the aim is a workable day and a child who understands themselves, not a child taught to mask.

For families in Europe who are waiting on assessment, or working within an unfamiliar system for additional needs, online sessions can be a practical way to get experienced, English-language support in the meantime.

You can read more about SEN coaching and how it is adapted for each child.

Adding tuition when academic support is also needed

Tuition is available alongside coaching for ages 7 to 13, aligned with the UK National Curriculum and adapted for children in international, bilingual and British schools across Europe. It is most often used to keep a British curriculum thread going, or to rebuild confidence in a subject that has become a source of dread.

You can read more about international tuition for ages 7 to 13.

How online sessions work across Europe

Ruby works from the UK, generally between 9am and 6pm UK time. Most of Europe sits within an hour or two of UK time, so a slot straight after the school day falls comfortably inside her working day. Ruby works across time zones, and will find a regular slot that fits your family's week.

Sessions are one to one over video call at a regular weekly or fortnightly time, with written notes to you afterwards.

Who this is for

  • Families at international, bilingual, local or British schools anywhere in Europe
  • Children who have recently moved and are still finding their feet
  • Children finding a new school, new country or new friendships hard
  • Teenagers who have gone quiet or lost motivation
  • Neurodivergent children without easy access to local specialist support
  • Families expecting to return to a UK school and wanting to prepare early

About Ruby

Ruby Cole is a qualified teacher with Qualified Teacher Status and a BSc Psychology (Hons), and winner of the London Teacher of the Year Award 2021. She has more than 10 years of experience supporting children and young people in the UK and internationally, including specialist one to one teaching across mainstream, SEN and neurodivergent profiles.

She previously worked as an Assistant Psychologist within a children and young people's clinical psychology service, and has contributed to research with UCL and the Anna Freud Centre. That background is why the work is psychology-informed: sessions start from how a child is developing, what they are carrying and how they learn, rather than from a fixed programme. Ruby works closely with parents throughout, and with a child's school where the family would like her to.

What this is, and what it is not

Ruby offers education-led, psychology-informed coaching and support. This is not therapy, counselling, psychological assessment or clinical treatment. If a child's needs fall outside the scope of coaching, Ruby will always be open with the family and recommend appropriate professional support.

Questions families in Europe ask

My child is at a local European school, not an international one. Is coaching still relevant?

Yes. Coaching is not tied to any school system. It is about friendships, confidence and how your child is feeling, wherever they go to school.

We are moving countries within Europe. Can coaching help with that?

Often the best time to start. Coaching around an upcoming move, or the uncertainty of not knowing yet, is some of the most useful work Ruby does.

What time zones do you work across?

Ruby works from the UK, generally between 9am and 6pm UK time. Most of Europe falls comfortably inside those hours, and Ruby also works with families in the Middle East and Asia.

How long does a child usually need?

Coaching begins with a minimum of four sessions and continues for as long as it is useful. Some families want a short, focused block on one thing, others keep a regular slot through the school year.

What is the difference between tuition and coaching?

Coaching gives a child tools and support for the social and emotional side of things, like friendships, confidence, feelings and settling. Tuition is more about academic support, like schoolwork and subjects.

Can Ruby speak to my child's school?

If you would like her to, yes, with your permission and only sharing what you are happy for her to share.

Where to start

If you are not sure whether coaching or tuition fits, that is what the first conversation is for. You can read more about coaching for children and teenagers, or go back to the international coaching page for the wider picture.

Talk it through with Ruby.

A free 15-minute discovery call, no pressure and no obligation.