Understand the child first.
How I work with every child: understanding before teaching, relationship before outcomes, and progress that lasts.
Understanding first, then progress.
- London Teacher of the Year Award 2021
- BSc Psychology and Qualified Teacher Status
- In person across North London and online worldwide
What guides every session.
Start with the child
Every child has their own story, strengths and way of learning. I always start by understanding who this child is, how they learn best, and what helps them thrive. Understanding the learner comes before teaching the learner.
Learning is developmental
How a child learns involves ability and effort, but also confidence, focus, relationships and past experiences. These shape how they engage with new learning. When I understand both the emotional and academic side, I can teach in a way that actually fits.
Relationships come first
Children learn best when they feel safe and understood. A genuine connection between us creates the foundation for learning, because a child who feels understood is ready to try, to listen, and to grow both in confidence and academically.
Build from strengths
Every child has strengths, both in who they are and in what they can already do. I start by looking for what is working and build from there. That is how progress follows, because learners move forward fastest when they feel capable and understood.
Growth is for life
Progress is not only about the next assessment. It is about a child becoming more confident, more independent and more aware of how they learn, so they can keep growing long after my work with them ends. The aim is not to create dependence, but capable, curious young people.
Four steps, every time.
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Understand
I begin by getting to know the whole child: their strengths, interests, confidence, experiences and what might be getting in the way. Not what is wrong, but what is influencing this child's learning.
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Connect
Learning happens through relationships. I build trust and a genuine connection, so a child feels safe enough to engage, ask questions and have a go without fear of getting it wrong.
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Build
With understanding and trust in place, I build: knowledge, confidence, independence, and the strategies that help a child learn well. The support is shaped around the child, not the other way around.
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Grow
Over time, children become more confident, more independent and more resilient, and more aware of how they learn best. That is what lasts.
Every programme is delivered personally by Ruby Cole, a qualified teacher combining academic rigour with an evidence-based understanding of how children learn and grow. Ruby is winner of the London Teacher of the Year Award 2021, BSc Psychology (Hons), Qualified Teacher Status (QTS), with ten-plus years working with children nationally and internationally, including specialist 1:1 tutoring, Assistant Psychologist experience, and research with UCL and the Anna Freud Centre.
Every programme is built around the same principle: a child who feels understood is a child who can achieve more.
The same approach, across every kind of support.
Let's talk it through.
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