Ruby ColeTUITION & COACHING
Online children’s coach, Singapore

Online specialised tuition and coaching for children and teenagers in Singapore.

One to one online coaching for children and teenagers aged 7 to 18 in international and expat families, with tuition available alongside it when schoolwork also needs attention.

Award-winning specialist support

Steady one to one support, arranged around a Singapore school day.

  • London Teacher of the Year Award 2021
  • BSc Psychology (Hons) and Qualified Teacher Status
  • 10+ years with children in the UK and internationally
  • One to one online sessions, ages 7 to 18

Children in Singapore often grow up surrounded by other families who have arrived from somewhere else and may well leave again. That brings a lot with it: an easy familiarity with change, and also a running question about which friendships will still be there next year. Coaching gives a child a regular hour to work on the parts of that they do not usually put into words.

Families come for different reasons. Some have just arrived from the UK, Hong Kong or another posting and want their child to settle properly rather than simply cope. Others have been here for years and are noticing something more specific: a child hovering at the edge of a friendship group, or a teenager who cannot get started on anything without a parent standing next to them.

This sits alongside the wider support for international and expat families, delivered online from the UK.

At a glance

Main service
One-to-one online coaching for children and teenagers
Ages
Coaching for ages 7 to 18. Tuition for ages 7 to 13
Areas of support
Friendships, social confidence, emotional regulation, executive functioning, organisation, school transitions and independence
SEN and neurodiversity
Psychology-informed support adapted for autistic children, children with ADHD and children with other additional needs
Tuition
British curriculum tuition, academic confidence, 7+, 9+ and 11+ preparation can be incorporated where appropriate
Format
Individual online sessions tailored around the child’s strengths, needs and goals
Availability
Online sessions arranged around Singapore after-school hours.
Practitioner
Ruby Cole, qualified teacher, BSc Psychology (Hons), former Assistant Psychologist and London Teacher of the Year 2021
Scope
Education-led, psychology-informed coaching. This is not therapy, counselling, psychological assessment or clinical treatment

What children here often bring to sessions

A child who has changed school in the middle of a year often has to join friendship groups that formed long before they arrived. That is a social task, not a personality problem, and it can be practised. So can knowing what to say when someone asks where you are from and the honest answer takes three sentences.

There is also the question of where home is. Children who have lived in several countries frequently hold more than one answer to that at once, and they can carry it quietly for years. Sessions give them somewhere to think about it out loud with an adult who is not worried by it.

What Ruby and your child work towards

Sessions are practical and specific. Ruby and your child work on the things your child is actually finding hard, in small steps, and review together as sessions progress.

Joining an established friendship group
Keeping friendships going across time zones
Talking about a mixed background with confidence
Starting work without a parent sitting alongside
Naming a worry early
Feeling steadier about the next move, whenever it comes

Social confidence, friendships and communication

Ruby and your child look closely at what actually happens in a break time or a group chat: how conversations open, how they stall, and what your child can try next time. For a child who has recently arrived, that is often more useful than being told to be confident.

Teenagers tend to work on harder ground, including friendships that have quietly changed and how to say something difficult to someone they still want to keep.

There is more detail in the social and friendships coaching programme.

Executive functioning, organisation and independence

School days here are often long, with activities stacked afterwards, and a child who struggles to plan can look disorganised when they are actually overloaded. Ruby and your child build a system your child can run themselves: how to break a task down, how to start, and what to do when they get stuck halfway.

This is deliberately low tech and specific to your child. Parents usually notice the difference first in the amount of chasing they are doing.

This work follows the organisation and independence programme.

Emotional regulation, confidence and transitions

Children rarely announce that a move has been hard. It tends to appear later, in bedtimes, in reluctance to go in on a Monday, or in a temper that seems out of proportion. Ruby and your child work on noticing the feeling earlier and having something to do with it.

Where a child is anxious about attending school, Ruby goes slowly and works in partnership with you, and with school when that helps.

SEN and neurodivergent children

Ruby has spent years working with autistic children, children with ADHD, and children whose profiles include differences in processing speed, working memory or executive functioning. The approach is neurodiversity-affirming: Ruby is not teaching a child to appear less autistic or to mask, she is looking at what makes the day workable and what strengths to build on.

For families abroad who are waiting on assessment or have not found a suitable local specialist, online sessions can be a practical way to get experienced support in the meantime, without any suggestion that coaching replaces assessment or clinical care.

You can read more about SEN coaching and how it is adapted for each child.

Adding tuition when academic support is also needed

Tuition is available alongside coaching for ages 7 to 13, aligned with the UK National Curriculum and with Cambridge Primary and Checkpoint, and adapted for children in IB schools. It is most often used to close gaps left by a mid-year move, or to rebuild academic confidence after a period of feeling behind.

Families applying to selective UK schools from here can also read about 7+, 9+ and 11+ preparation, including interview practice.

How online sessions work from here

Ruby works from the UK, generally between 9am and 6pm UK time. Singapore is seven hours ahead during British Summer Time and eight hours ahead in winter, so late afternoon and early evening here fall comfortably inside her working day. A four o'clock session locally is a morning session for her.

Sessions are one to one over video call at a regular weekly or fortnightly time, with written notes to you afterwards. If you are not sure whether a particular slot works, ask Ruby and she will check it against the school run.

Who this is for

  • Families who have recently arrived and want a child to settle properly, not just manage
  • Children joining friendship groups that formed before they got here
  • Teenagers who cannot get started without a parent next to them
  • Children thinking about identity, belonging and where home is
  • Neurodivergent children without easy access to a suitable local specialist
  • Families expecting to return to a UK school and wanting to prepare early

About Ruby

Ruby Cole is a qualified teacher with Qualified Teacher Status and a BSc Psychology (Hons), and winner of the London Teacher of the Year Award 2021. She has more than 10 years of experience supporting children and young people in the UK and internationally, including specialist one to one teaching across mainstream, SEN and neurodivergent profiles.

She previously worked as an Assistant Psychologist within a children and young people's clinical psychology service, and has contributed to research with UCL and the Anna Freud Centre. That background is why the work is psychology-informed: sessions start from how a child is developing, what they are carrying and how they learn, rather than from a fixed programme. Ruby works closely with parents throughout, and with a child's school where the family would like her to.

What this is, and what it is not

Ruby offers education-led, psychology-informed coaching and support. This is not therapy, counselling, psychological assessment or clinical treatment. If a child's needs fall outside the scope of coaching, Ruby will always be open with the family and recommend appropriate professional support.

Questions families in Singapore ask

Is this coaching for children, or for parents?

Sessions are one to one with your child. You are closely involved around them: a conversation before sessions start, written notes after sessions, and a review when one is needed. Some parents also want a separate call to talk things through, which is easy to arrange.

My child seems fine at school but different at home. Is coaching still worth it?

Often yes. Holding it together all day and letting go at home is very common after a move, and it usually means a child is working hard to fit in. Sessions give them somewhere to put that effort down and to practise the bits they are finding hardest.

Do you support children in IB schools?

Yes. Coaching is not curriculum-specific at all, and where tuition is added it is adapted for children following IB Primary Years or Middle Years alongside British and Cambridge pathways.

What if we move again next year?

Sessions can carry on wherever you land, provided the new time zone still fits UK working hours. Coaching around an upcoming move is one of the most useful times to start.

How long does a child usually need?

Coaching begins with a minimum of four sessions and continues for as long as it is useful. Some children want a short, focused block on one thing; others keep a regular slot through a whole school year.

Can Ruby speak to my child's school?

If you would like her to, yes. Ruby is used to working alongside schools and can share what she is seeing, with your permission and only what you are happy for her to share.

Do you tutor children in Singapore's international and IB schools?

Yes. Tuition is adapted for children in British curriculum, Cambridge and IB schools in Singapore, and coaching is not tied to any particular school system.

Where to start

If you are not sure whether coaching or tuition fits, that is what the first conversation is for. You can read more about coaching for children and teenagers, or go back to the international coaching page for the wider picture.

Talk it through with Ruby.

A free 15-minute discovery call, no pressure and no obligation.